• alifer2 posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    Hi anjholl ,been where you were ,right down to the ill husband,missed mortgage payments.
    but i did loose our house.
    A word of warning ,in many and my case like ours,banks do not go so easy on gamblers.
    i would suggest you tell them anything ,but not that your a gambler.

  • alifer2 posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    hi anjholl.just wanted to say,i did the same things as you,ill husband,he had no idea ,i did loose our house.and much more.
    What ever you do DO NOT tell the bank you have a gambling addiction .
    In my case my husband was placed in a carehome,he never had a clue i did what i did.
    Hugs your going down a road ive been .if we meet in chat one day i…[Read more]

  • alifer2 posted a new activity comment 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    Hi anonc,nice to hear from you.Hope you are well,
    I do pop in here once in awhile but i dont linger,a few of us are In the rooms site everyday,a bit more social then recovery lol.
    Summers over here ,and once again its gone like a moment in time,that never happened.
    Been off work since June,way down depression ,but comming up slowly,ugly ,ugly…[Read more]

  • alifer2 posted a new activity comment 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    If it hasnt worked in 25 yrs why go back? Why not looking into different programs.
    Ga didnt work for me either.
    Still searching.for the right fit,
    Hope things work out for you.

    • jona replied 8 months ago

      I tried AA, that actually worked for me. You have to do ALL 12 steps, including helping other gamblers. That is the only way to stay out of trouble. Resentment is the #1 offender. My freedom from gambling depends on my spiritual condition….I need to be free of fear, dishonest, and resentment and be of service or I will slip.

  • alifer2 started the topic Hi in the forum Ask Dr. Wood 10 months, 2 weeks ago

    I have explained in the community wall my reasons why.
    But if you could please delete me from this site.
    Really cant do this anymore.
    Come here everyday for years and years,watched the many changes,but im a gambler and there for that makes me an automatic outcast.
    And like all gamblers we are a fickle bunch,broken perhaps,but still human.
    I…[Read more]

  • alifer2 posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 10 months, 2 weeks ago

    Didnt want to do this,and this might disapear with my descision to permantly close my account here,I strongly feel,this has become a very unhealthy place to be for me.
    Dont understand how the very hands in life that are meant to be there to help you ,hurt you the most.
    But i do know after left this site a few hrs ago i have been so out of sorts.
    I…[Read more]

    • Miss you 🌸🌸🌸🌸 it’s me but I have never used this group n not sure how I will even see ur reply. 🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷

      • Hi anonc,nice to hear from you.Hope you are well,
        I do pop in here once in awhile but i dont linger,a few of us are In the rooms site everyday,a bit more social then recovery lol.
        Summers over here ,and once again its gone like a moment in time,that never happened.
        Been off work since June,way down depression ,but comming up slowly,ugly ,ugly…[Read more]

  • alifer2 became a registered member 11 months, 2 weeks ago