• Bepop posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 10 months, 3 weeks ago

    I have scanned this site many times. Unfortunately, every time I come here for any guidance or assistance I see a predominant view that is owned by religious salespersons. Is there a place I can find scientific, non-cult help?

    Why are there just layers of vultures until you get to “oh no hell”. Fk off Ken and durr. U r as bad as the casino with…[Read more]

    • Hi Bepop Sorry if my sharing what has worked for me over 20 plus years offends you. I realize that GA meetings and counseling doesn’t work for everyone. Maybe check out Smart Recovery
      SMART Recovery is an international community of peer support groups that help people recover from addictive and problematic behaviors, using a self-empowering and e…[Read more]

      • Kenl you are an inspiration. I’m sorry bepop felt that way. Maybe not ready or needing another avenue. I was taken aback when I read that that . Please don’t take it personally. It sounds like you didn’t but please don’t give it a thought you’re an amazing light to us that are struggling. Thank you

        • Thanks Dan
          I have been on sites like Gamtalk for years and have learnt not take posts to heart.
          Hoping Bepop will find what works for him in Smart Recovery as Bugzzy shared.

    • Though I find your comment to be somewhat offensive in what you said… and you may not come back even to read this… I’d like to say that everyone has their choice in how they fight this addiction. If you’ve been here several times you would have been able to read many different ways that people use. Support of some kind is very necessary……[Read more]

  • Bepop posted a new activity comment 1 years, 8 months ago

    100% agree. That’s why I have always avoided mirrors. That guy is a jerk.

    Not trying to dismiss but that’s the base issue. If that wasn’t a problem, there would be no problem

  • Bepop posted a new activity comment 1 years, 8 months ago

    Solid idea but unfortunately no candidates for that role

  • Bepop posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 years, 8 months ago

    Every week I struggle. And every week I get an update from Gamtalk hoping I can find some spark of assistance. Yet, every week I am blasted with statements that are really as illogical as my gambling beliefs. Separate the religious replacement crutch from this and maybe it will actually help some logical people.

    • Hi Bepop! I hear you. Could you possibly put someone else in charge of your finances until you are on more solid ground? Hope you are having a happy gamble free day. xo

    • Well ,your post kinda made me laugh. And i can laugh,been down every road of recovery and knocked on what feels like millions of doors.Starred for hours sometimes days at the phone waiting for someone just anyone to return my calls.Sat in on meeting after meeting,each time leaving feeling worse then when i went in.I finally stopped asking and…[Read more]

      • 100% agree. That’s why I have always avoided mirrors. That guy is a jerk.

        Not trying to dismiss but that’s the base issue. If that wasn’t a problem, there would be no problem

  • Bepop posted a new activity comment 1 years, 10 months ago

    Can you please provide any suggestions that are not GA or faith based assistance?