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Buggy posted an update in the group
Community 2 months, 4 weeks agoHaven’t gambled in a week been feeling really weak and wanting to deposit keep telling myself it won’t hurt if it’s a little now it’s payday and I’m just worried that’s gonna end up badly like all of the rest do been letting myself down cause I haven’t been as close with god as I’ve been wanting to be just been feeling so down lately and just…[Read more]
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jj2500 posted an update in the group
Community 2 months, 4 weeks agoHello everyone,
It’s been awhile since I have been here. First and foremost, I want to offer my condolences to Mr. Ken’s loved ones. I just read the notification of his passing. I enjoyed reading his positive messages of hope for this horrible gambling addicton. Rest well, Sir.
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Where did you read the notification about Ken. He was such a selfless man.
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They also now have his obituary in the Ottawa citizen with a guestbook for people to write in as well.
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Durr posted an update in the group
Community 2 months, 4 weeks agoBad emotions lead to depression. If you start to become angry, discontent, stressed, or any of a dozen negative emotions… Panic. Negative emotions lead to darkness and darkness leads to bad habits. Recently, I noted that praising the Lord 100 times is a top 7 way to quit. Why? Because that praise is “fighting” negative emotions.
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Jenny posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoI did it, I installed gamban on my phone for 7 days to block online gambling, I haven’t installed it on my computer yet
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Good for you Jen. It’s a brave start!
I hope after the 7 days you will consider longer.
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Congrats Jenny! What a solid and impressive first step! The next step is to do the same thing with your computer! You can do it. Think of why you’d like to quit in the first place.
In case you are looking for self-help resources, why not check out this digital treatment program I am building? I am a psychotherapist who has had experience working…[Read more]
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Jon posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoNew to this group and on my 8th day without placing a bet. I was living a double life for over a year which included hundreds of lies to my wife and countless hours away from my family seeking the big win. Gambling has changed me, I’ve isolated myself, full of shame and find it hard to look those I’ve hurt in the eye. I have a deep financial bur…[Read more]
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I’m 2 minutes into banning myself from gambling
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Good for you Jon, congrats on Day8, this is a late msg so I hope you are still holding on on your Day 13. Take each day as it comes and just tell yourself you will not gamble TODAY.
I am a psychotherapist who has had experience working with patients with gambling disorder in the hospital and I am building a self-help app for people like you who…[Read more]
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Durr posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoGod insists we do things His way. He is “Very” firm. Why? Because it is either His way or trouble. No middle ground. Our purpose is “For the Lord.”
I have been hearing about a book called Atomic Habits. I plan to read it. A great use of this books great tools would be to use his great advice in conjunction with doing what you learn here. Learnin…[Read more]
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Jenny posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoOk I have no more money now, been playing for 3 days no win I should quit
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Unfortunately, we all chase our losses. The last time I went I lost so much money, and the only reason I did not leave broke was because I was unable to access anymore.
Hopefully, we will overcome this horrible disease so that we may live the life God intended.
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MAKE IT IN SHOWBIZ posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoAre you new to the industry or considering a career change? “Make It In Showbiz” is your roadmap to securing that first job without the hefty price tag of traditional film school. JD Southers, drawing from her personal experiences, unveils a step-by-step practical approach to breaking into the film production industry, sharing invaluable ins…[Read more]
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Janie posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoNew here online. Casino 30 minutes away; play slots; win, lose, win, lose, as soon as I win, I think I can win more to pay my debt…then lose it all. $18,000 down. Just want to stay inside my house alone, depressed, don’t even want to go to church. Embarrassed, even tho no one knows.
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I have felt this way so many times, but each time, I return. However, I am not going to give up on myself and neither should you.
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Hello Janie,
This is a late comment so I hope it’s still useful. Please consider self-banning from casinos if you usually gamble on slot machines. Start from there if you are completely overwhelmed and don’t know what to do. I would also encourage you to seek professional help that will help you understand the risk factors that lead you to…[Read more]
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Buggy posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoBeen gambling for a while didng really think it was a probelm till it was the only thing I think about the only thing that could distract me was being at work then it came to the point where I was gambling at work the deposit size were small at first but lately they have been getting bigger and bigger I use god as a method to seek forgiveness in…[Read more]
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I’m in the same boat, I just watch when I have no money to gamble, wanting to bet, I keep asking for money from lenders, im currently $15000 in debt
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I play online and I can’t stop thinking about gambling it’s the only thing I keep in my mind lately
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“It’s only on the brink that people find the will to change”
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It is very difficult to sway a gambler into logical thinking…especially in the midst of chasing.
The debts keep compounding…. snowballing.
I know… I have lived it and regret all that I have lost.
Please continue to talk about this horrible addiction with others.
You have taken the baby steps …talking, discussing, listening, reading……[Read more]-
Even as we speak im watching Mt gameshow online and thinking of placing a bet, I was thinking of borrowing money from my friend but instead I told her I have a gambling problem and that I can’t stop thinking about gambling, my mentality change instead of asking her for money I stopped myself from having the opportunity to borrow money.
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I know now she won’t lend me any money for gambling
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Be cautious on who you talk to about this problem.
I don’t wish for you to lose friends over being transparent.
It may come back to haunt you…possibly effecting your job.
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Good advice. Michael
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The money to me just means I get to play longer in that session that I win cause I know im gonna lose it all even if I cash out I know it’s gonna go right back in within a couple hours or a day or two, each bet im getting closer to the big win that I haven’t gotten there’s been sessions where I’ve sat on my computer wagering for 12 hours straigh…[Read more]
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Same for me
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As for Michael_Dgen’s comment, I didn’t tell my friend I was going to borrow money I just told her I had a problem with gambling, so my intent changed when I told her so I sort of stopped myself from having the option of gambling because deep down inside I want to quit but really I’m chasing after that win
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My last win was in Jan 17, paid my mom $1700 and paid my visa which I used again so I didn’t really paid any bills just used it again, now I’m broke waiting for my check to come in
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So I can play again
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So im just working to play
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You know what is the problem with my gambling, I’ve let it come first before school work and family, im trying to quit for those reasons but im falling
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Jenny the best way to stop is self exclusion. Closing your accounts. I am either self excluded or I Ve closed my accounts online. Counciling may be something to consider also. A person needs to start doing things differently a hobby spending more time with friends, loved ones. Things that can make you happy besides gambling. There’s no easy q…[Read more]
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I know what you mean Jenny feels like I got to work and I’m just waiting to chase but I try so hard to find a way to gamble if that’s selling something etc . The worst thing is you can ban your self on the casinos online but they don’t care or you can always find another and you don’t care how sketchy it is cause you just wanna play and try and…[Read more]
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I was told there are apps to ban yourself from playing on all gambling websites http://www.gamblock.com US dollars, most expensive, but most positive feedback
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These are three of the apps I was told 2 are free and one cost money
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I wish I knew about this website when I was trying to ban myself from gambling only because if I ban myself from one casino there’s always another one to replace it
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This ensures im blocked in more than one casino but I was told some casinos may still pass the block but you can just ban yourself from that one, I will use this next time I quit
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It will block you from gambling
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Jenny posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoI’m chasing after my losses, I should know better working in a casino
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Jenny posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoI’m waiting for the big win before I can quit gambling
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I’ve been gambling for 2 years now and currently owe less than $15000 but I can’t stop till I make my money back
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What are your thoughts on that?
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I would say quit while you’re only down $15K.
odds are in favor of the house and could be worse in 12 months.
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Please stop now, $15,000 is nothing. If you don’t stop now it’s gets deeper and it becomes a nightmare. I’ve been gambling over 20 years, I’m $800,000 in debt. I keep chasing my loses. I have one good night then 6 bad nights. The chasing and time wasted at the casino makes you mentally crazy.
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Thanks for your post…I’m down $18,000 & I see what could happen. I lose, it makes me sick, the next day, I’m wanting to go back and chase another win.
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Kind advice bigheart!
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I’m new here, just joined this morning. I’m in a similar situation as you. Down $18,000 in the past two years. Gamble more to win, to pay off the debt….duh!–I win and lose it before I leave casino.
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gamtalkadmin posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoSad news about Ken. It is with great sadness that I must announce that Ken L our long time moderator and friend has passed away. I understand that he had not been in good health for some while. Ken was with us from the very start of Gamtalk in 2007. He contributed so much of his life to selflessly helping others on Gamtalk, through GA and in the…[Read more]
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My deepest condolences to Ken’s family and friends. He will be missed. He was a good soul with a kind heart.
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Ken L. Was the best of the best, may his family and friends have my deepest condolences. Ken L. he reached out to me first on Safeharbor and then told me about Gamtalk.org and other great helpful GA sites. He was always positive and so supportive, he will be missed by many as his endless network of people that he reached and helped was so large…[Read more]
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I am so sorry to hear of Ken’s passing. He was a counellor for so many people. My codolences to his family
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I am so sorry to hear that about Ken. He was such a kind hearted person who helped me get into Gamtalk and GA. I will remember all the time and effort he sacrificed to help others. Beyond any doubt one of the most selfless people to walk this earth. RIP
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Knowledge posted an update in the group
Community 3 months agoI’m 21, and have a problem with roulette. I just started this new vice less than 2 weeks ago and have blown over $5000, money I don’t have, I took out a loan sitting on the casino floor… I’m tired of the vices and self-sabotage
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Money becomes meaningless in a casino to people who are addicted to gambling. Ban yourself. It will ruin your life if you don’t
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I agree with frog2255, Knowledge @Knowledge, self-ban is the first step.
After that, if you are looking for self-help resources, why not check out this digital treatment program I am building? I am a psychotherapist who has had experience working with patients with gambling disorder in the hospital, this app is meant for people like you who are…[Read more]
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Netflix Party posted an update in the group
Community 3 months, 1 weeks agoGoing with the flow or updating yourself with this fast-moving world is always advised. Whether it’s related to your work, lifestyle, or even the entertainment front. Yes, a major change we can have in the streaming world is watch parties, which we can do on different streaming platforms. In this order, the popular one is the Netflix Party, where…[Read more]
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Barbara posted an update in the group
Community 3 months, 1 weeks agoMy first time posting. I recognize I have an addiction to the slots. Seeking support as I NEVER want to go back. Thank you.
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It takes a lot of power over your mind to stay away…….but it is necessary otherwise your life will be ruined…..believe me.
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Thank you Frog for your reply. One hour at a time.
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My problem is slots too. Went yesterday, won, lost, charged more on credit card, won all back, and sat there and lost it all again. The same ole ride home, making myself crazy, swearing I have to stop, getting up this morning and wanna go back. !!!
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That’s me. I have a far drive going home. I’m swearing to myself. That will never go back and I do and lose even more. I hate this addiction . I have no self control
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I’ve stopped. I’ve stated over and over again.
I give myself time away the longer I stay away the better I feel. I have three months now. I still think about going back but not as often and not as strong emotions. I tell myself the longer I stay away the less I will spend. I hope one day to have no desire at all to gamble. I’m not there but I wil…[Read more]
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Kudos to recognizing and acknowledging the problem Barbara, an important first step. See if you can ban yourself from casinos of your reach. If it’s self-help resources you are looking for, why not check out this digital treatment program I am building? I am a psychotherapist who has had experience working with patients with gambling disorder in…[Read more]
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Serenity posted an update in the group
Community 3 months, 1 weeks agoToday I celebrate three months free of any bets.
I Feel proud of myself getting this far.
I have thought about king back several times over the three months.
During my thoughts I reminded myself of the relentless losses I incurred which led me to the choice to stop. That helped me get through another day and not returning.-
Wow!! Congratulations!!! I hope that soon I’ll be able to post something similar!!!!
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Janie Thank you, my best wishes go to you too stop. As we battle this dis-ease.
One day at a time.
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Congrats Serenity, great job, keep going!!
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Thank you Skinner. I have high hopes too stay away ❤️
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ineedhelp posted an update in the group
Community 3 months, 1 weeks agoI feel stupid and very irresponsible. I lost my savings in online casino, now I dont know how to get that amount. I really fcked up, now I dont know where to get that amount for my grandfather medical assistance as he had stroke just last week. I need help, financially and mentally. I want to get out of this situation. Where should I start.
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Michael_Dgen posted an update in the group
Community 3 months, 1 weeks agoToday I told my sister about my gambling among other issues I have. Desperate to pull myself out. I made her cry. She doesn’t deserve the pain and disappointment.
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Michael good for you sharing with your sister your struggles. She clearly loves you and had empathy for you
What did that make you feel?
I think you are on the right track.
A gambling addiction is a painful one. Emotionally, financially and even on our physical health.
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I was always a loner growing up. Never close to my parents or siblings. It was a relief talking to her. I am in debt without a job and old. Have to start over and try to survive. I thought I could make a living gambling but I realized too late its not possible. The casino trap get you a win and you think it’s possible to maintain but that’s the…[Read more]
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I think it’s natural to wish for something better. Some people buy the odd ticket. Go out gambling maybe once a year.
I don’t know I guess for us gamblers we decide to take things like gambling to the extreme. get caught up in a dream that rarely comes true Wanting to be the exception to the rule. It’s expensive to find out we are not.
So w…[Read more]-
I relate with Michael I too am a loner addicted to online gambling and hoping for that big win, I currently am sitting at $15000 in debt and still want to win my money back, I guess I haven’t learned my lesson
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Good for you Michael, gambling addiction is a hard one to beat, without a support system it’s gonna be even more daunting. You did the right thing. Her pain and disappointment of learning about this will be smaller than when she had to find out more serious consequences resulting from your gambling addiction.
In case you are looking for self-help…[Read more]
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Hi Buggy it’s been over three months for myself not gambling.
I don’t feel the loss of the money and I’m more able to see myself paying for things I need to pay for.
I know your fear of not wanting to gamble while wanting to gamble.
There seems to be a road before us.
My guess is gambling really isn’t adding to your life. I know it hasn’t…[Read more]
Hi buggy im up to date, how are you gambling is it at work? Because I recently discovered I can, and I told myself I’ll allow myself to gamble at work since it’s reduced my gambling from daily to 3 times a week, then hope fully the lesser and lesser I have access to the websites I can quit. Did you try and install gamban on all your devices? It…[Read more]
Last week was my first visit with both
I’m not allowed to use the internet during work but on my break I can, so for 30 minutes I can. So that’s not as bad as daily and hours