• Dan posted a new activity comment 1 weeks, 3 days ago

    Thank you 🙏

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 1 weeks, 3 days ago

    Thank you Durr this is a great post

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 1 weeks, 3 days ago

    It sounds like you are on the right path. Stay strong and keep these thoughts in your mind

    • Thanks Dan we will all help each other. Our actions will be our own but we have a safe place to speak to others in the same situations.

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 1 weeks, 3 days ago

    I am trying to get out of the isolation. This morning my roommate needed to make a few deliveries for his business and asked if I would go along. I would have said no most of the time and isolated in my room but today I said ok because I do know I need to get active in order to stop the negative thoughts. It worked . It was a good day for me. 😊

    • Thats great Dan. You are stronger than you think. You can do this. When I read your post I read that you undertand the position you are in. You understand your actions habe consequences and you undertand you need to change. That my friend is what you need to bring those changes about. I believe you are capable.

    • Glad you had a good day. And it’s good you went on the field trip. Keeping your mind on something else always helps. Skipped my ga meeting tonight but the fish were biting a little after work. Hope you have another good day tomorrow

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 1 weeks, 3 days ago

    Thank you for your kind and thoughtful response. Everything you said is spot on . I appreciate you 🙏

  • Dan posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 weeks, 5 days ago

    Hi everybody. I hope you are all doing well in your recovery. I’m not doing well at all. The last six months have been a perfect storm for my life. So much craziness to deal with and everything I have learned about recovery has went out the door. My gambling has taken over and I have lost the only supports I have had to keep me going in a p…[Read more]

    • Anyone who has struggled with compulsive gambling has been there dan, I know I have. It seems you are struggling coping with all the negative things in your life. Realize gambling might be a good place to escape everything and everyone, but once you run out of money the problems and depression and shame just come front and center. Find something…[Read more]

      • Thank you for your kind and thoughtful response. Everything you said is spot on . I appreciate you 🙏

      • I am trying to get out of the isolation. This morning my roommate needed to make a few deliveries for his business and asked if I would go along. I would have said no most of the time and isolated in my room but today I said ok because I do know I need to get active in order to stop the negative thoughts. It worked . It was a good day for me. 😊

        • Thats great Dan. You are stronger than you think. You can do this. When I read your post I read that you undertand the position you are in. You understand your actions habe consequences and you undertand you need to change. That my friend is what you need to bring those changes about. I believe you are capable.

        • Glad you had a good day. And it’s good you went on the field trip. Keeping your mind on something else always helps. Skipped my ga meeting tonight but the fish were biting a little after work. Hope you have another good day tomorrow

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    Acceptance is the key 😉

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    1st your not alone. It’s a shitty place to be. I’m only sharing my experiences and what I’ve learned in order for me to survive. I want more for you eventually but it’s important for you to survive right now. You can start on fixing the shit later. For you and your family

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    Very wise advice Tracie 👍

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    I unfortunately know this experience all to well.. I’ve been dealing with a gambling addiction for decades. Here is what I have learned. The situation you are in can’t be changed right now. It happened and no amount of stress and beating yourself will change it. In order to start to go in a positive direction and heal from this you have to get som…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your thoughtful reply. I know you are so right. I just keep thinking what’s going to happen when the bills and mortgage come in and the money is gone . I so appreciate all the feedback.. this is a lonely place . I keep thinking that no one in their right mind would throw away this much money in one night, especially someone living p…[Read more]

      • 1st your not alone. It’s a shitty place to be. I’m only sharing my experiences and what I’ve learned in order for me to survive. I want more for you eventually but it’s important for you to survive right now. You can start on fixing the shit later. For you and your family

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    You are very welcome Jenny

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    I can relate so well with this. Thank you Serenity for sharing this because it’s important for so many of us to hear stories we can relate to. We are not alone in our struggles and our experiences

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    This is a great observation Jenny. I have learned that the best way to deal with this is to stay busy with positive and fulfilling activities. If you are concentrating on positive things and activities the thoughts of gambling or not gambling diminish tremendously. Both of the thoughts of not gambling or gambling are are the same in my opinion.…[Read more]

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 1 months, 1 weeks ago

    I’ve been told by therapists that the best way to look at it is you can gamble but you choose not to. It takes away the power of the addiction and gives you the power to decide if you want to continue gambling. Just a different way of thinking. I hope it helps

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 1 months, 1 weeks ago

    You’re very caring and I appreciate you. Thank you for being you 🤗

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 1 months, 1 weeks ago

    Congratulations on being bet free for over four months. You’re an amazing person and deserve to be happy.

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 1 months, 1 weeks ago

    It is scary. I’m happy you are aware of it though. Many times in my life the urge would come and I wasn’t aware enough to recognize it was even there. It was all so automatic.

  • Dan posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 1 weeks ago

    If anyone needs to get together in Washington or Oregon to meet in person before or during a meeting let me know. I hope everyone is doing well. Remember it’s just a day at a time. We can do this. I promise 😉

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 1 months, 1 weeks ago

    Serenity you truly are an amazing blessing to everyone who is here on this site. Thank you for your time and support.

    • Hi Dan you are welcome. I wish none of us ever had a gambling problem and from my years of trying to find help. Good support caring advice at times has been hard to find. And it’s needed. And it means something when it’s given.
      I’ve noticed your kind comments and really good advice along the way. Your advice and encouragement without a doubt…[Read more]

  • Dan posted a new activity comment 1 months, 1 weeks ago

    Ok good luck in fighting the demons. I hope you have a good night

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