• Monica posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 2 years, 4 months ago

    Hi all, just a quick note – I drove by the casino today, as it is close to where I live – and I was slightly tempted to spend 10 minutes and $20 there (just for fun-it wouldn’t hurt) , but then I quickly rejected my wicked thoughts and kept driving. I told myself that I cannot go back to where I was. I don’t want to. I am so proud of myself! :-)…[Read more]

  • Monica posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago

    Very well said, Woundedhealer. Baby steps – Rome wasn’t built in one day. I like that analogy. Practicing daily affirmations helps too. Switch your negative thinking to a positive one. Start loving yourself and believe in yourself. If you don’t, who else will?

  • Monica posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 2 years, 4 months ago

    Thank you all for your encouraging words and for your support. This is DAY 5 for me, and I am getting stronger every day. It’s much easier to recover if you have such an amazing community who are there to lift you up when you are down! Blessings to you all! 🙂 Stay strong! Be positive! You CAN do it!

  • Monica posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago

    Stay positive! Stay strong! Believe in yourself! YOU CAN DO IT! We all can. This is DAY 5 for me, and I feel great and blessed. Thank you all for your encouraging words Thank you Lord for the strength you are giving me.

  • Monica posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago

    Hi Lee, how are you holding up? This is DAY 5 since we’ve started this journey. 🙂

  • Monica posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago

    Nyomi, it is not easy, but you can do it. We can all do it if we set our minds to it. I started my recovery 5 days ago, and I’m glad to say that I stayed strong. One day at a time. One step at a time. Keep a journal. Every day that goes by I put a smiley face on my calendar. 🙂 Meditation and prayer help too. You CAN do it.

    • Great advice Monica, this site is a good place to start. Daily check in, read KenL posts, I am not a church goer, but I believe in spirituality and the existence of a higher power. This whole journey is about baby steps, figuring out you, the whys this behaviour/ addiction started and getting yourself better. Rome wasn’t built on a day, and I h…[Read more]

      • Very well said, Woundedhealer. Baby steps – Rome wasn’t built in one day. I like that analogy. Practicing daily affirmations helps too. Switch your negative thinking to a positive one. Start loving yourself and believe in yourself. If you don’t, who else will?

  • Monica posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago

    You are welcome. I just read some stories of hope on this website. I suggest you read them too. Wow! They are inspiring and scary at the same time…It’s time to quit now…

  • Monica posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago

    Meditation helps too.

    • Thank you, Monica! Good luck to you. We are both on Day 1. I will start with these suggestions. Seems to work for a lot do people.

      • You are welcome. I just read some stories of hope on this website. I suggest you read them too. Wow! They are inspiring and scary at the same time…It’s time to quit now…

  • Monica posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago

    Hi Lee, I know exactly how you feel. I’ve been in the same boat, and now I’m trying to quit. I’ve never thought I would be joining such a community, because I thought I am much stronger than this, but honestly, learning from others and supporting each other definitely helps. I’ve been advised here to keep a journal and to write my thoughts every…[Read more]

    • Meditation helps too.

      • Thank you, Monica! Good luck to you. We are both on Day 1. I will start with these suggestions. Seems to work for a lot do people.

        • You are welcome. I just read some stories of hope on this website. I suggest you read them too. Wow! They are inspiring and scary at the same time…It’s time to quit now…

  • Monica posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago

    Thanks a lot for your encouragement and suggestions. Good idea! I’ll start a journal today. I did well for a while, but then I relapsed and it’s now affecting my financial situation more and more. Yes, we can do this. We are strong! Thanks again and keep me posted on how you are holding up. DAY 1 for me! On day/step at a time…

    • Sure will keep you posted, glad I could be a help. I will keep you undated and you also. One day at a time and as my numbers grow my confidence should also.

  • Monica posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 2 years, 4 months ago

    Hi everyone! I’m new to this community, but I had to join in to see how others recover from gambling problems. It was fun at the beginning, but it’s not anymore, and I’m trying to quit. Any suggestions? I’m struggling big time!

    • I am just on day 3 of my journey I know I need a lot of help I am going to start a journal it did help me in the past to stay clean for over a year that was a few years back. Just write down all your thoughts for the day it does not have to be a novel everyday just some uplifting things like I can do this I need to stay strong or write what you…[Read more]

      • Thanks a lot for your encouragement and suggestions. Good idea! I’ll start a journal today. I did well for a while, but then I relapsed and it’s now affecting my financial situation more and more. Yes, we can do this. We are strong! Thanks again and keep me posted on how you are holding up. DAY 1 for me! On day/step at a time…

        • Sure will keep you posted, glad I could be a help. I will keep you undated and you also. One day at a time and as my numbers grow my confidence should also.