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Woundedhealer posted an update in the group Community 2 years, 3 months ago
Good Morning GamTalk community
I have been on this site for a couple months now, my daily check in here, has helped keep me grounded and aware that my addiction to gambling was destroying my life. Like many I joined GamTalk after hitting rock bottom, admitting to myself and my husband that I had a serious gambling problem. I don’t go to church, b…[Read more] -
Woundedhealer posted an update in the group Community 2 years, 4 months ago
Has anyone been in the Chat Room ? Thoughts? I have so far just been on this community wall.
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I have been there before, it has always been a positive thing for me, the problem is that not many people go into it so you might be the only one when you decide to go the best thing to do is post what time you will show up in chat while in the chat and let anyone reading it know that if they show up at that time you will be there.
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Great suggestion ! Thanks.
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Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
Agree JeffK, the lengths We go to gamble are shameful. Lying to my family about where I had been, moving money around, managing , hiding the losses, racking up my Visa card to play for losses. All these acts were Ego driven, from a place of self indulgence, selfishness, and just SICK ! And you know what these destructive behaviours made me feel…[Read more]
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Thank you Joyce and Woundedhealer for your ear and response love reading helpful responses to add to my knowledge of my recovery talking and writing and being involved is so so important and do not forget reaching out to your higher power it is very important to recovery I think it might be over looked sometimes but trust me it helps.
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Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
JeffK , hey my day buddy. Just read your post and I can tell something has happened and you are feeling alone and vulnerable right now. 1st thing you are not alone, You have your GamTalk community, numerous helplines, and your toolkit you have been building for times you feel like this, Reach deep down into that box and take the time you need to…[Read more]
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Thank you so much for your comment Woundedhealer I have been at recovery off and on for many years never fully gave it up but I could tell when I was in recovery on a different site a lot of nick picking to what you can say and do and they would block you from the site for the slightest rule brake it was not helpful at all it was bad glad I am out…[Read more]
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Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
Thanks for taking the time to post ! A good read 👍
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Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
Wishing you a day full of gratitude and blessings Joyce ! Congrats on a month of GF freedom ❤️
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Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
Thank you Kenl for the beautiful post and insight on holiday survival. The holidays are sometimes difficult, as we are bombarded with social media posts of perfect people, living perfect lives. But the truth is, there is no perfect life. The reality of life is along the way, we have gotten a little battered and bruised, and self inflicted wounds…[Read more]
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Woundedhealer posted an update in the group Community 2 years, 4 months ago
Good Morning Gamtalk Community, hope this post finds you healthy & mindful. Appreciate JeffK post, Gamtalk is our community and you will get out of it what you put into it. My morning ritual now has been to start my morning with my Wellness Check. Cup of coffee in hand I read all of GamTalk new posts. It keeps me grounded, starting the day of with…[Read more]
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Hello Woundedhealer
Thank you I appreciate your post also I think it helps more then people realize. The more you read and participate in recovery the more you will get out of it if we all just put the time in recovery as we did in gambling I know for sure change will happen we just need to let go and admit to defeat open are heart to others nad…[Read more]
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Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
Thanks for all the great suggestions !
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Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
Good Morning JeffK, I have found too I have a lot of free time on my hands. I am trying to do things for myself and family & community. Recovery I have started to realize will be my life’s journey ,one day at a time, I wake-up in the morning with the thought “Today I want to be the best version of me” I’m reading more, trying to cook new foods,…[Read more]
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Thank you so much for the inspiring words and ideas, it sounds to me your recovery is going so well I am 10 days in I look forward to new adventures and I do enjoy cooking so I might try to increase my skills in that area I can cook a mean hamburger that is about it lol. Thanks again and have fun snowshoeing that sounds like fun.
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Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
Great post Durr, you mentioned we are not fully aware, totally agree. Any time I have spent 15 hours in a casino plugging a slot machine it almost has been an out of body experience, during that unaware time I usually have a bankroll of $1500, have totally lost insight as to the value of the money, to me it’s a means to get a fix. I have lost t…[Read more]
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Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
Love it ! Thanks for todays inspirational message ❤️
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Woundedhealer posted an update in the group Community 2 years, 4 months ago
Good Morning my Gam Community, Kenl posts today , “There is more to life than suffering”
Yes Ken there is ! Here’s are a few thoughts on Kenl’s posts today. We have all been given by our creator “ Free Will” Free Will is just that, my life is based on choices I have made, paths . opportunities taken or refused and at times choosing the path le…[Read more] -
Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
Great advice Monica, this site is a good place to start. Daily check in, read KenL posts, I am not a church goer, but I believe in spirituality and the existence of a higher power. This whole journey is about baby steps, figuring out you, the whys this behaviour/ addiction started and getting yourself better. Rome wasn’t built on a day, and I h…[Read more]
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Woundedhealer posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago
Wouldn’t the world just be such a better place if we could take a moment to help a neighbour, give thanks to those people that we appreciate in our lives that help us, random acts of kindness make this world such a better place. Thanks for the reminder Jeff, I’m going to drop some homemade cookies off at my mechanics “ for the boys “ on my way to work !
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That is wonderful idea I am sure they will love them and it will make there day : ).The world needs it today more then ever people to give freely and from the heart to let others know they are not alone and people do care about them we are all on this planet together it is not a race to get all we can before we die.
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Woundedhealer posted an update in the group Community 2 years, 4 months ago
I have lived with worry so long that it has become my constant, floor-pacing companion, I love this quote ! Kenl
We all know that guilt, shame, worry feeling when we go to bed. It is quiet, the material world has stopped it’s constant distractions of bombarding us with social media, internet, Facebook etc, and we are alone with our thoughts a…[Read more] -
Woundedhealer posted an update in the group Community 2 years, 4 months ago
Thanks Ken, Durr, Monica , JeffK, for sharing. I joined this site hoping the community wall would be a place people would feel comfortable in sharing their journey and offering support to each other as we battle our addiction together. Life is so busy, we are daily bombarded by the internet, social media, texting we are an instant gratification…[Read more]
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That sounds very relaxing and I will implement that into my own recovery. Thanks for posting.
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Stay positive! Stay strong! Believe in yourself! YOU CAN DO IT! We all can. This is DAY 5 for me, and I feel great and blessed. Thank you all for your encouraging words Thank you Lord for the strength you are giving me.
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Woundedhealer posted an update in the group Community 2 years, 4 months ago
Good Morning everyone, I’ve been away for awhile visiting my mom, she has no internet. Been off the site for about 2 weeks. Hope everyone is doing okay over the holiday season. I know for me, I rationalize this is a good time to be at a casino, they are going to pay better and be generous…after all it’s Christmas. Last year I lost a lot of money…[Read more]
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Well said Woundedhealer 🙂
Thank You for sharing your experience strength and hope.
God Bless
Ken L YBIR