• Sarah posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 years, 3 months ago

    I have just signed up and hoping this will help me get better. I do realize that it starts with me, but knowing there may be support from people that have or are going through this. I’m fine when I dont have money..haha. I dont miss the gambling then, however, payday comes along and I almost feel entitled to spend the money that I worked for. I live alone and don’t know many people. For me it is a combination of socializing without commitment to any person or club. However, I know that if I want to get ahead in life I need to make a commitment to stop gambling.

    • Hi Sarah
      You are right it’s up too ourselves. Support from other people is important also we need it.
      Welcome.
      As you are likely aware there are very nice people here sharing a (our) journey too recovery from gambling.
      Receiving money is a trigger for me too gamble also.
      So it’s either a high degree of discipline or figuring out ways not to be able too spend the money you earned in the casino.
      Really I suppose there’s options. Someone you can trust can hold your money, or it is possible too self exclude and possibly there’s other options.
      I get the being alone part. That was party what kept me going too the bars or the casinos was the company.
      I’m happy too say it’s been over three years that I haven’t gone. And I started that off by self excluding myself. I think that was for two years. When that time was up I had too write to be able too return. They host concerts and things and I thought if something should come up I’d like too be able to go.
      I received permission too enter again that’s has too be going on nearly two years now.
      I haven’t been back though.
      It’s online gambling that I turned too after that. I’m working on staying away it’s day 29 for me today.
      At first I found it very difficult but as the days go by that has subsided some. There’s nothing easy about stopping gambling it takes so much will power and planning what will work.
      It’s one day at a time. So important.

      • It is def a trigger. As gamblers we need to learn how to spend money again because most if not all paid the bare necessities then the rest went to that. We have to learn simple excitement because everything is associated with the winning and losing. I would go as far as spend it,pay rent in advance pay bills in advance, whatever you need to do to get out of the cycle that is losing it all. All the best