• CJ posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 3 years, 4 months ago

    I told my husband and now he hates me and says he doubts everything about our relationship 😢

    • Normal reaction.
      Hurt people hurt people.

      • I can relate CJ. It is going to take time for me to get my husband to trust me again. I have lied to him so many times. I am very manipulative. I don’t like the person I am right now. I definitely want to change. I also want to be able to tell the truth again, nothing but the truth.

    • He doesn’t hate you, he’s shocked and hopefully when he has had time to process the information he will be supportive. I find gambling the most misunderstood of addictions, it seems to carry the most blame because non addicts associate gambling as playing or having fun. I found counselling with Gamcare very helpful. They do not judge you but help you to understand yourself.