• Ken L posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 week, 2 days ago

    JULY 30 Reflection for the Day

    When we first come to Gamblers Anonymous, the most common variety of self-pity begins: “Poor me! Why can’t I just gamble now and then, like everybody else? Why me?” Such bemoaning, if allowed to persist, is a surefire invitation for a long walk off a short pier – right back to the mess we were in before we came to GA. When we stick around this Program for a while, we discover that it’s not just “me” at all; we become involved with people, from all walks of life, who are in exactly the same boat.

    Am I losing interest in my comfortably familiar “pity pot”?

    Today I Pray

    When self-pity has me droopy and inert, may I look up, look around, and perk up. Self-pity, God wills, vanishes in the light of other people’s shared troubles. May I always wish for friends honest enough to confront me if they see me digging my way back down into my old pity pit.

    Today I Will Remember

    Turn self-involvement into involvement.