neenur

neenur posted an update in the group Community 11 months ago

hey everyone I’m neenur. lost my fiancée due to gambling years ago ( thats ok) but wasn’t able to save my daughter (dog’s life) in December due to not having the money or credit for her emergency surgery. she was my world and I’ve been struggling to live with myself due to what I have done. I don’t really want to live but I’m going to try. eve…[Read more]

Serenity replied 11 months ago

You didn’t plan for your daughters dog to be unwell. Also there’s no guarantee what ever the vet could do would save your daughters dogs life.
I feel you need to let that go.
Gambling is a very difficult thing to let go of. It is a process
Trying to figure out the why is huge
There can be different reasons. The want and need for more mon…[Read more]
- neenur replied 11 months ago
  
  thanks for the kind words. there are gamblers anon meetings near me but I’m not a fan of the step program which they seem to embrace near me. def agree a lifestyle change is in order.
  by my daughter (dog’s life) I meant my dog was my daughter. we did everything together. she was the only one in this world I could truly trust and count on. tru…[Read more]
  - Serenity replied 11 months ago
    
    You meant your daughter passed away. I’m so very sorry. That’s not your fault either. There would again be no guarantee the surgery would have worked. It is tragic your daughter isn’t in your life anymore. She would want you to be happy, I think you should seek counselling Losing a person you are so close to takes time to feel better again…[Read more]

Serenity replied 11 months ago

You meant your daughter passed away. I’m so very sorry. That’s not your fault either. There would again be no guarantee the surgery would have worked. It is tragic your daughter isn’t in your life anymore. She would want you to be happy, I think you should seek counselling Losing a person you are so close to takes time to feel better again…[Read more]

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