• kenl posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 4 weeks ago

    NOVEMBER 17 Reflection for the Day

    Many of us recovering compulsive gamblers stubbornly cling to false ideas and positions simply because we fear we’d be left defenseless if we admitted having been wrong. The thought of “backing down” still seems distasteful to some of us. But we come to learn that our self-esteem soars when we’re able to push pride into the background and truly face the facts. Chances are that people with true humility have more genuine self-esteem than those of us who are repeatedly victimized by pride.

    Does pride, either blatantly or deviously, keep me from thorough and continuing attention to the Tenth Step?

    Today I Pray
    May pride stay out of my way, now that I’ve found a road to follow. May I avoid that familiar, destructive cycle of pride – the ego that balloons up out of all proportion and then deflates with a fizzle. May I learn the value of “backing down.”

    Today I Will Remember
    Pride is the arch-enemy of self-esteem.