• Durr posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months ago

    My friend Simonsays said, “I am watching everbody winning. This is a top 5 habit we must break. Everybody is losing. We notice the winners and ignore the losers. Notice the losers. There are 99 losers to every winner. Notice them. We are them.
    Second, consider saying 10 times daily, “I will think about the losers, the 99%, I will notice the losers.”
    Here is my normal article.
    Can love conquer problems? Love leads us out of isolation and toward people. My old go to was to lick my wounds, and use my pain to go back to isolation and habits.
    Second, we need a network of people loving us in order to change. Even if your self-help group gives you no new information, just the fact that they are there for you is very important.
    Third, church people and pastors/priests are often loving and helpful. Get involved in church.
    Romans 12:21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.”
    Studying love is good. Helping others is good. Good works are good. Loving others is good. When we become obsessed with these things, we start to overcome evil with good.
    Fourth, make “Verses love” a constant search on your phone or computer. If you click on one of these verses every time you are tempted… Your life will change completely for the better.
    Finally, consider making habits of some of these things. Why? Because, when we increase in love toward others, they will likely increase in love toward us. That is good for change.