• diamond posted a new activity comment 5 months, 3 weeks ago

    Love it!!❤️❤️❤️

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    Congrats on Day 1!! I’m rooting for you Readytoquit. Make it HARD to go back and do it now while you’re feeling disgusted and tired. If you don’t have access to money you can’t gamble and if you ban yourself that’s effective to a certain degree also. If you’re not willing to do those things then you’re just kidding yourself. Hoping this is it fo…[Read more]

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    I started a side hustle as a laundry pro a year ago just to keep busy and be of service to others and I’m actually really enjoying it! You just never know where the blessings will come from but I’m grateful. Enjoy your day.😊

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    😂😂😂

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    That’s awesome!! 14 pounds is a lot!! Have a wonderful gamble free day.😊💕

    • Thanks :). I also have the fact that I study languages to keep what´s left of my brain occupied for parts of the day. Now when I am angry at myself I can call myself names in 3 languages.

      • 😂😂😂

      • I started a side hustle as a laundry pro a year ago just to keep busy and be of service to others and I’m actually really enjoying it! You just never know where the blessings will come from but I’m grateful. Enjoy your day.😊

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    I feel you. If you’re serious about getting some clean time you need to set up roadblocks that will stop you when the urges arise. My #1 roadblock option is DO NOT HAVE ANY ACCESS TO CASH. For everyday expenses like gas and food put money on a prepaid Visa card. You will be able to purchase items but you won’t be able to withdraw cash from the…[Read more]

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 6 months, 1 weeks ago

    Hi Rach! If you go on gamblersinrecovery.com you can participate in meetings 24/7 thru your phone. Enjoy!

  • diamond posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 6 months, 1 weeks ago

    In order to get unstuck you have to get uncomfortable. You have to do things you don’t normally do. You have to stand up for yourself. You have to tell somebody when they hurt you instead of stuffing it down inside. You have to deal with the boredom and anger instead of escaping to the casino. You have to show who you really are instead of b…[Read more]

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 6 months, 1 weeks ago

    Congrats stephann! You should be very proud of yourself. You can also participate in meetings from the comfort of your own home 24/7 thru gamblersinrecovery.com Wishing you continued success in your recovery process.

  • diamond posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 6 months, 1 weeks ago

    If you haven’t figured it out by now here’s the truth——Your gambling is not the problem. It’s just a sh*tty coping mechanism you use to deal with life. So if you don’t address the deeper issues that dwell within you the gambling will return. If you don’t feel worthy of a better life you will accept all the pain and abuse this addiction dis…[Read more]

  • diamond posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 6 months, 1 weeks ago

    Look, this recovery process isn’t easy. You don’t just decide one day that you’re not going to gamble anymore and instantly your life is all rainbows and unicorns. It’s a messy tearing down of your old life and ways of thinking so you can build it back up on a more solid foundation instead of one made of quicksand. You’re going to have days when…[Read more]

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 6 months, 1 weeks ago

    Hi Stephann….I know you’ve been trying to get some clean time for a while now. I’m going to suggest something that people might think is a little wacky but it’s worked for me so maybe it will work for you too. Create a mantra for yourself. My two favorites right now are “I’m living an amazing life because I did not gamble today” and “ Money flows…[Read more]

  • diamond posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    You are meant to break this self destructive cycle. It’s part of your purpose. Why you?? I don’t know. But I do know that you will become an extra strong and courageous soul if you accept this challenge to stay clean. You CAN do it and you are meant to do it. Stay the course. One day at a time. Much love and light to you.

  • diamond posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    OLD WAYS WON’T OPEN NEW DOORS…..You CAN stay clean and it’s never too late to get your shit together. One day at a time. There’s a beautiful new life waiting for you.. Grab ahold of it and don’t look back.

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    Hi Sabrina! Try gamblersinrecovery.com …It’s a great website that you can join in on meetings 24/7 with other people who are in recovery.

  • diamond posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    The inner game is the ultimate game. We all know people who are rich and miserable because money can’t make you right on the inside. Be a friend to yourself. Love yourself. I promise you that if you do the work to get right on the inside the outside will fall into place. Much love and light to you.

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 7 months, 1 weeks ago

    I’m so sorry you are hurting. Please don’t give up on yourself. It’s never too late to change. The dark place you are in is just trying to tell you that your way isn’t working. I’m rooting for you Lisa.

    • Thank you Diamond. I just feel like there is no way out of this mess. Gambling is so deceptive because it seems so innocent until you get caught up in the establishment. I guess that’s how they make money, off compulsive gamblers. So sad.

      • Believe it or not there is away out.
        Once you stop digging the hole and not place a bet One Day At A Time.
        When I crashed I was about to lose my family job and home.
        Today with support of others in recovery I haven’t placed a bet ODAAT in over 21 years.
        Celebrated 40 years with my partner own my home and I am retired.
        And believe me when I stopped…[Read more]

      • True, Lisa it is hard because we love to try to beat the casino at their game .At one time or another we had the idea we could beat them but there are many variables that are in the casinos favor.

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 7 months, 1 weeks ago

    This addiction will not go away on its own. What does your daily practice look like to keep gambling at bay? Ken L has described some great ones that work. If you don’t break the cycle, the cycle will break you. Wishing you much progress in your recovery.

    • You are right Diamond about the cycle breaking me. I feel that I am way past recovery. I can’t believe I fell for their lies and deception. The casino sent me mail stating that I can win up to 100,00 dollars and I’m entered into a drawing. I go to the casino after work sometimes to unwind. Now I’m hitting rock bottom again. It’s the darkest…[Read more]

      • I’m so sorry you are hurting. Please don’t give up on yourself. It’s never too late to change. The dark place you are in is just trying to tell you that your way isn’t working. I’m rooting for you Lisa.

        • Thank you Diamond. I just feel like there is no way out of this mess. Gambling is so deceptive because it seems so innocent until you get caught up in the establishment. I guess that’s how they make money, off compulsive gamblers. So sad.

          • Believe it or not there is away out.
            Once you stop digging the hole and not place a bet One Day At A Time.
            When I crashed I was about to lose my family job and home.
            Today with support of others in recovery I haven’t placed a bet ODAAT in over 21 years.
            Celebrated 40 years with my partner own my home and I am retired.
            And believe me when I stopped…[Read more]

          • True, Lisa it is hard because we love to try to beat the casino at their game .At one time or another we had the idea we could beat them but there are many variables that are in the casinos favor.

  • diamond posted a new activity comment 7 months, 1 weeks ago

    I know Day 1 sucks and the first few months are hell but it is so worth it. Try not to beat yourself up too much. It’s a tough addiction but you can do this. Much love and light to you.

  • diamond posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    This addiction wants to convince you that you can gamble with discipline and limits. It would love nothing more than to place you back on that hamster wheel of pain. DO NOT FALL FOR IT. Make sure your roadblocks are strong.(ie: no access to cash, self banning) Your addiction thrives on complacency, big egos, secrets and isolation. On the flip…[Read more]

    • True, the thought of money management and skill. discipline. but if a person losses to much it seems they gave in to greed by not quitting while ahead.

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