• bbgirl posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    Okay so I have been playing online games for a while now. There seems to be moments of clarity however when online all sense of reason seems to escape me. I am tired of the sleepless nights trying to recuperate losses and the feelings of despair and disappointment in myself and to others. I have blocked my online profile this morning with the…[Read more]

    • Good for you bbgirl

      • Thanks Jenny still going strong for the first time in ages I have money in my account by the second of the month. Feels great to not be stressing how I will survive for the month. My unhealthy relationship with money needs to be sorted but feeling better .

    • Hello bbgirl,

      Good job for self-ban and self-intervening! In case you are looking for self-help resources, here is a mobile app digital treatment program for people with gambling disorder that will be available soon. Feel free to learn more about it here: https://skinnerapp.wixsite.com/helloskinner
      Let me know if you have any questions as well!

      -Skinner

  • Durr posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    Life has been very frustrating for me for the last 3 days. Job, relationships, problems etc. Last night and this morning I found time to give thanks. It really helps. I also am focusing on praising the Lord.
    Second, I printed out the Feb 18th Armor of God thread which is already helping. That article quotes “Whatever is true, noble, right, p…[Read more]

  • J posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    i was considering putting almost all of my remaining money on a single roulette red or black bet. A win would make me even in my lifetime of gambling. A loss would kill me – suicide. I decided to heal my gambling addiction instead. i feel better. Thanks for listening/reading. I felt a desire to share my thoughts.

  • Bigheart4 posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    Is anybody from the Ottawa, Ontario area who would love to chat by texting. So we can help each other.

  • stephann posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    Is their anyone on this Chat who lives im Massachuestts? Im just wondering if their is any other help besides Gamb anonymous mtgs.

    • Have you tried counselling, im not sure if you get free counselling where you live because here in bc Canada we have a program for gamblers to get free counselling through 1800 numbers

  • stephann posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    Day 1. I have been struggling with gamb since i was 13 im 47 now it started out with the 1$ scratch tixs and now i play the 50$ scratch tixs.I went thru an insane amount of $ the past 3 days 3000$ which is nothing compared to what ive lost thru out my life .The majority of thr $ ive just lost was from credit card cash advances.I could not sleep…[Read more]

  • Serenity posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    Written by a councillor I admire.
    🌟 “The magic you’re looking for is in the work you’re avoiding.” 🌟 Let these words ignite a fire within you today! 🔥 Often, we seek the extraordinary, the miraculous, without realizing that the true enchantment lies in the steps we hesitate to take, the challenges we shy away from. Every obstacle, every task we…[Read more]

  • Jenny posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    Whenever I find a device that doesn’t have the gamban on I use it before I place the ban on as my last chance to gamble before I ban the websites, I should stop doing that

  • Durr posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    A top ten habit for quitting is to analyze what to work on today. Firstly, if something is way out of whack like anger, work on that. Pound it out with Bible verses on anger (Verses anger).
    Second, the Bible says: “Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is exc…[Read more]

  • Maximus posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    FEBRUARY 22 Reflection for the Day
    When I came to Gamblers Anonymous, I found people who knew exactly what I meant when I spoke finally of my fears. They had been where I had been; they understood. I’ve since learned that many of my fears have to do with projection. It’s normal, for example, to have a tiny backburner fear that the person I lov…[Read more]

  • Jenny posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 3 weeks ago

    I made it till the end of the day yesterday then I gambled $60, now im not obsessing about gambling it feels a little better, I subscribed 1 month to gamban

    • I haven’t thought of going back online eventhough gambling is always on my mind I think about not gambling and gambling but I don’t have the urge to gamble. Eventhough I hover over my phone as habit I don’t feel the need to gamble, I think it’s getting better on and off

  • Jenny posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 4 weeks ago

    Yesterday my free trial for gamban expired and went online but didn’t spend any money I was given free money so I gambled, today I feel better and don’t have the urge to go online yet, we’ll see it’s early.

  • Maximus posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 4 weeks ago

    FEBRUARY 21 Reflection for the Day
    Do I waste my time and energy wrestling with situations that aren’t actually worth a second thought? Like Don Quixote, the bemused hero of Spanish literature, do I imagine windmills as menacing giants, battling them until I am ready to drop from exhaustion? Today I’ll not allow my imagination to build small tro…[Read more]

  • Bigheart4 posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 4 weeks ago

    Buggy we’re all in the same situation. We need to realize we’re never going to get our money back. We keep chasing more and more. We’re going to end up killing ourselves. We need stop it together right now. I joined this group first week of December. I said I was going to stop. I fell off the wagon 8 times. Lost so much money that I could buy a…[Read more]

  • Buggy posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 4 weeks ago

    Weekends didn’t go to planned gambled most of what I had left of my pay check and then I convinced myself to self exclude all the other sites I gamble on I already self excluded but the one I mainly gamble on I didn’t due to my rewards and promotions I get put in a 100 then lost it then another and another then won it all back then slowly chi…[Read more]

  • Jenny posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 4 weeks ago

    I’m having a hard time quitting gambling, I look for any excuse to check my phone and the websites for gambling sites but I installed gamban so I can’t. Yesterday I realized we have a computer at the community break room at work and since noone uses it I end up going in and checking the websites. I haven’t spent any money on it yet since I don’t…[Read more]

    • I signed up for overtime hours at work but that only happens when we’re short staffed and right now we are overstaffed but we’ll see

    • I’m not allowed to use the internet during work but on my break I can, so for 30 minutes I can. So that’s not as bad as daily and hours

      • Try removing yourself from your work environment if the computer makes it possible to gamble. Join co-workers for a work meal, pick a restaurant that is further from your workplace, etc. The idea is to make it harder for you to access anything that enables you to gamble.

    • Hi Jenny
      I’m sorry too hear you are struggling to stay away from gambling.
      I did read you are seeing a Therapist. That’s great.
      The first time I went it was for a different reason than gambling. It was family therapy. My first session alone with her on the drive there I told myself I’m not mentioning my gambling problem.
      When the Thera…[Read more]

    • I’ve been there too this past week I had no money and I just kept checking my phone like something was going to randomly appear.As hard it is to resist you can be strong Jenny and make it through the day of work without touching that computer or even gambling, it’s heavy burden to have on our shoulders of wanting to gamble all the time but we all…[Read more]

  • Maximus posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 4 weeks ago

    FEBRUARY 19 Reflection for the Day
    When people say rash or ugly things, we sometimes say they are forgetting themselves, meaning they’re forgetting their best selves in a sudden outburst of uncontrolled fury. If I remember the kind of person I want to be, hopefully I won’t forget myself and yield to a fit of temper. I’ll believe that the posit…[Read more]

  • Durr posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 4 weeks ago

    I recommended the book Atomic Habits to help with quitting and my friend said, “Just watch the Youtube about the book.” This is an excellent suggestion if you don’t want to get the book. But it takes 65 to 100 days to form a new habit. So if today you say, “I will learn to pray “Father help me to run from triggers,” over the next 2-3 months. I…[Read more]

  • Maximus posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 1 months, 4 weeks ago

    FEBRUARY 18 Reflection for the Day
    We learn in Gamblers Anonymous that we cannot punish anyone without punishing ourselves. The release of my tensions, even justified, in a punishing way leaves behind the dregs of bitterness and pain. This was the monotonous story of my life before I came to Gamblers Anonymous. So in my new life, I’d do well to c…[Read more]

  • Buggy posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 2 months ago

    Thought I could make it But, I didn’t I failed myself and I let the urge beat me one week at time I guess made it a week without gambling and unfortunately I couldn’t resist the temptation and I did it feel so week withdrawing from a rush of dopamine but I got the rush and it didn’t feel the same like a realization of why am I doing this. I recen…[Read more]

    • Hello Buggy,

      It’s hard staying gamble-free so give yourself a pat in the back for making it to 1 week. You are not weak, you just lack the know-how and practice on how to deal with urges better. Urges tend to subside gradually on their own usually after 15 min so the next time you are experience them, see if you can occupy yourself with sth…[Read more]

      • Is this app free skinner? Buggy what happened you quit gambling, I have the same urges as you and I think we’re on the same boat

        • Hello Jenny,

          We want to make it free so we are looking for ways to partner with orgs that might take an interest in it, but even if we did end up charging users, there will be some content available for free and the full version is going to be significantly less than the cost of one therapy session, for example.

          Hope that answers your question.…[Read more]

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