• Ken L posted an update in the group Group logo of CommunityCommunity 2 years, 10 months ago

    JUNE 6 Reflection for the Day

    Adjusting myself to things as they are, and being able to love without trying to interfere with or control anyone else, however close to me – that’s one of the important things I search for and can find in Gamblers Anonymous. The learning is sometimes painful; however, the reward is life itself – full and serene.

    Is the Program helping restore me to a sane and reasonable way of thinking, so I can handle my interpersonal relationships with love and understanding?

    Today I Pray
    May I respect those that I love enough to set them free – to stop controlling, manipulating, scheming,

    bailing them out of trouble. May I love them enough to let them make their own mistakes and take responsibility for them. May I learn to let go.

    Today I Will Remember
    Loving is letting go.

    JUNE 7 Reflection for the Day

    Few of us are entirely free from a sense of guilt. We may feel guilty for things we’ve said or done – of things we’ve left unsaid or undone. We’re so used to that gnawing guilt that even when we’re accused falsely we still feel guilty. When I’m troubled by naggings of guilt, obviously I can’t put into my day all the energy I’m capable of. So I must rid myself of guilt – not by pushing it aside or ignoring it, but by identifying it and correcting the cause.

    Have I finally begun to learn to “Keep It Simple?”

    Today I Pray
    Since guilt is such a familiar feeling for a compulsive gambler, may I learn to understand when my feelings are simply natural regret at what has happened and when I am taking on a pose of perpetual guilt. I count on God to help me sort out and get rid of these twinges and pangs of guilt, which need to be recognized and unloaded.

    Today I Will Remember
    The verdict of guilty is not for life.