Activity – Nine Tail Ouroboros

Nine Tail Ouroboros posted an update in the group Community 3 years ago

How do you help a family member who seems present, shows all signs of suicidal (without being suicidal) and is getting increased gambling addiction? They refuse to stop going, refuse to talk about it (except to ask for more money) and are spending money that isn’t theirs. They’re generally very listless and claim someone is out to get them, with no known aspirations except chasing losses and earning money an “easier way”. Their spouse, who is tied to them financially has dealt with this for decades at a worsening progression. But their spouse has stopped eating and hasn’t slept in days and I am worried for the spouse’s health.
- JerMe replied 3 years ago
  
  Gambling is such a terribly insidious disease. It sounds as though they are completely numb – numb to everything around them. Sadly there isn’t a single right answer to resolve any of it. However what comes to mind is an intervention. Perhaps that would “awaken” them to their destructive ways? I think it’s important for problem gamblers to know they are supported and loved, and help is available. I know I still have my struggles; I still hurt my family by gambling despite knowing if their support and love for me. At the end of the day, sobriety has to come from within.
- Ken L replied 3 years ago
  
  Hi Nine
  Sadly most CGs have to hit their bottom before they will reach out for support
  I have included a link to Gam Anon which is a program to help the friends and family of the CG.
  Lots of good info there and answer to your questions and due to Covid19 they have many virtual meetings.
  And when the gambler that you are concerned about wants support please give them the Gamtalk link / GA link.
  Wish you well.
  Ken L Grateful Recovering CG
  
  https://www.gam-anon.org/